Dr. Flavio, Hypnosis for Love
Heartbreak

“I feel like it’s all over for me. I will never be the same person again. Can this really help?”

Yes. You can’t change what happened. But we can turn down the constant emotional panic, and find the new you who awaits within.

Awesome Again Program · Private hypnosis with Dr. Flavio

Private and direct. I usually reply the same day. Sessions in English, Spanish, or Portuguese · In person in South Florida or online.

Have you been here?

“I can’t believe this is how it ended. One moment we were dreaming of a future… the next, I’m left trying to make sense of the silence.”

“I keep going over it in my head: what I missed, what I could have done differently. I still feel like part of me is missing.”

“Everyone says I’ll get over it, but I’m not sure they understand how deep this pain goes.”

Is this you?

What if your heart isn’t broken, just waiting to be transformed?

What if the end of a relationship isn’t the end of your story, but the beginning of your transformation?

Imagine a path that doesn’t rush you to move on, but gently helps you heal what was torn. Imagine waking up without the weight in your chest, the replay in your mind, or the ache in your soul. Imagine finding yourself again: not just “getting over” them, but rising into someone more powerful, more peaceful, and more whole.

Hi, I’m Dr. Flavio.

I don’t believe in generic advice like “just give it time” or “there are plenty of fish in the sea.” You’ve probably heard it all already. Deep heartbreak doesn’t heal with clichés. It needs something deeper.

That’s why I created the Awesome Again Program, a hypnosis-based process designed to help you heal from the inside out. Not with more talking or endless analysis, but by going straight to the root of the pain, at the subconscious level, where heartbreak really lives.

The Awesome Again Program uses hypnosis and emotional healing to:

  • Clear lingering emotional bonds and attachments
  • Break free from looping thoughts, guilt, and regret
  • Heal the subconscious wounds that keep you stuck
  • Reconnect you with yourself, your worth, and your future
  • Awaken the version of you that is ready for real, beautiful love

You’re not weak for feeling broken. You’re human. And healing is not only possible; it is your birthright.

Since 1996

More than 44,000 private sessions later, I have helped thousands of people walk through grief, betrayal, and the kind of pain that takes your breath away. I have also been there myself.

How it works

Emotional crises respond better to concentrated care than to waiting a full week between sessions. The pace is tailored to you.

  1. Relief first: an initial session and a required follow-up 24 to 72 hours later, to stop the emotional bleeding
  2. Then, if you choose, an intensive Resolution phase of about a month
  3. Transformation, for those who want to go further
  4. A clear, predictable structure, so you know what to expect
  5. WhatsApp support between sessions for quick check-ins and guidance

What you gain

  • Emotional reconnection with your higher self
  • Healing of the inner wounds that sabotage love and life
  • Freedom from the same painful patterns
  • Restored trust and the ability to love again

Why it works

  • It speaks directly to the subconscious, where grief and identity are stored
  • It gently untangles emotional bonds without reopening the wound
  • It creates real transformation, not just coping strategies
  • It guides you back to wholeness, clarity, and emotional freedom

Is this for you?

This is for you if

  • You lie awake replaying what happened: the breakup, the betrayal.
  • You fall asleep only to wake up startled shortly after.
  • There is constant pressure in your throat, chest, or gut.
  • You keep thinking, “I can’t believe this happened.”
  • Someone you deeply trusted suddenly became a different person.
  • You can’t focus, and work has become hard or impossible.
  • You feel the urge to text, check their social media, or look for closure.
  • You have pulled away from family and friends.
  • Talking about it isn’t helping; you often feel worse afterward.

This is not for you if

  • You’re looking for a quick distraction or a surface-level fix.
  • You’re not open to exploring your inner world.
  • You’d rather stay in blame than discover your own power.
  • You’re not willing to invest in yourself and your healing.

All three programs follow the same three phases

01 / RELIEF

Fast, focused hypnosis to calm the nervous system, ease the pain, and end the crisis. People don’t come to me unless something serious is going on, so first we stop the pain.

02 / RESOLUTION

An intensive program to change a significant part of your life and resolve the problem in a way that lasts. We meet often and use hypnosis to reach results that matter to you.

03 / TRANSFORMATION

A longer phase for those who want deep, lasting change. Lifelong patterns and problems that run in families need a longer and different process.

Everyone begins with Relief: an initial session plus a required follow-up 24 to 72 hours later (for couples, five sessions: one with the three of us and two with each partner). There is no obligation to continue after that.

Dr. Flavio

Why I created these programs

I developed these programs out of necessity. After more than twenty years of helping people recover from devastating emotional events, I went through a profound personal breakdown myself.

Like many people, I sought help from highly respected professionals, locally and internationally. I met dedicated and caring people, but I found no clear, structured approach for the kind of emotional collapse I was living through. That surprised me. For years I had been helping clients through similar experiences, and I had assumed my approach was common. It wasn’t.

I began documenting the principles and techniques that had consistently helped my clients, and now me. Those notes became my book, Awesome Again. Over the past decade the work kept evolving through thousands of sessions. These programs are the result.

Every session is conducted personally by me, not delegated to an assistant or trainee. Most of the work happens in person at my South Florida offices in Doral and Plantation; we can also meet online.

Dr. Flavio in his office with his books
Illustration created with AI from Dr. Flavio’s own photo and his published books.

In their own words

Initials only, for privacy. Individual experiences vary.

I am so happy that a dear friend recommended Dr. Flavio to me. My experience with him was one that I believe everyone should have. Dr. Flavio helped me uncover patterns and offered a new perspective that changed everything. I know that this shift is only the beginning of the life that I’ve always wanted to create for myself, and I owe a huge part of that to Dr. Flavio. If you are looking to become your highest self and are willing to put in the work, I highly recommend reaching out to Dr. Flavio to begin the journey. It is one of the best investments I have made for my personal growth.

P. D.

Flavio truly listens and cares. Over time, I felt deeply supported and seen in a way I hadn’t experienced before. Our sessions helped me reflect, shift my perspective, and move forward with more clarity and confidence. I’m incredibly thankful for his generosity and for how much he gives of himself to the people he helps.

G. G.

Dr. Flavio's sessions were incredibly helpful and supportive. I highly recommend him. He also speaks Portuguese and Spanish, which helped a friend of mine feel more comfortable.

D. I.

Why talking alone may not be enough

I don’t just sit and listen to people’s problems. Each time we describe a problem, we strengthen the brain pathways connected to it (“neurons that fire together wire together”). That is why talking about the pain, again and again, can leave people feeling worse instead of better.

  1. Heartbreak hurts like physical painBrain scans showed that intense social rejection activates regions involved in physical pain, not only emotional ones.Kross, E., Berman, M. G., Mischel, W., Smith, E. E., & Wager, T. D. (2011). Social rejection shares somatosensory representations with physical pain. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 108(15), 6270–6275.
  2. Rejection works like cravingBrain scans of people recently rejected in love showed activity in reward and addiction systems, which helps explain the urge to text, check, and look for closure.Fisher, H. E., Brown, L. L., Aron, A., Strong, G., & Mashek, D. (2010). Reward, addiction, and emotion regulation systems associated with rejection in love. Journal of Neurophysiology, 104(1), 51–60.
  3. Going over the breakup slows recoveryAfter a breakup, people who kept ruminating about the relationship had more distress and adjusted more slowly.Saffrey, C., & Ehrenberg, M. (2007). When thinking hurts: Attachment, rumination, and postrelationship adjustment. Personal Relationships, 14(3), 351–368.
  4. Going over it keeps it goingA major review showing that repetitive thinking about distress tends to deepen and prolong it, rather than resolve it.Nolen-Hoeksema, S., Wisco, B. E., & Lyubomirsky, S. (2008). Rethinking rumination. Perspectives on Psychological Science, 3(5), 400–424.

What I do is different

We work directly with the subconscious, where the patterns live, so the emotional charge of what happened can come down and new responses can take hold. Hypnosis is not a passive relaxation exercise here: it is the main tool of a structured process.

What is hypnosis, and why does it help with love and relationships?

Hypnosis is a state of calm and deep focus that gives you access to your subconscious mind, where lasting change happens. It is not sleep. It is that quiet, open, highly receptive state just before you drift off, without distractions and without resistance.

In that state, we can:

  • Calm reactive and defensive thought patterns
  • Break cycles of anxiety, disconnection, or conflict
  • Retrain your mind and nervous system to allow closeness, trust, and real connection

This isn’t just mindset work. It changes how you feel… and how you relate.

  1. The evidence for hypnosisAn umbrella review of 49 meta-analyses (261 primary studies) over 20 years, concluding that hypnosis has real potential to improve mental and physical health.Rosendahl, J., Alldredge, C. T., & Haddenhorst, A. (2024). Meta-analytic evidence on the efficacy of hypnosis for mental and somatic health issues: a 20-year perspective. Frontiers in Psychology, 14, 1330238.

There is no diagnosis of any kind in these programs, and I do not prescribe or advise on medications.

Some questions

Can you make me forget my ex?

No. The goal is not to erase memories, but to take the overwhelming emotional charge out of them, so you can remember what happened without reliving the pain. Often the lessons are worth keeping.

What if I no longer believe I can heal?

Being here shows that part of you is ready to live fully again. I have been there, personally and with many clients, so I can tell you: you can come out of this better than before.

Why hypnosis? Is it safe?

Yes. Hypnosis is gentle, safe, and non-invasive, and you stay in control at all times. It reaches emotional layers that talk alone often can’t touch.

How quickly will I notice a change?

Most clients notice meaningful shifts early, often within the first few sessions.

What if I’ve already tried everything?

Then you are in good company. Hypnosis often helps after other approaches haven’t, because it works at the root. For years people have called me their “last hope,” and many now live better lives.

Can I do just one session first?

No. This is a structured program designed to change deep patterns. A single session won’t create lasting change.

Do I need to be very suggestible?

No. If you can get absorbed in a movie or an audiobook, you can be hypnotized.

Is there a guarantee?

No gimmicks and no guarantees. But the process works when you show up for it.

Why is it intensive?

Emotional crises tend to respond better to concentrated work than to waiting a week between sessions. The pace is tailored to your needs and progress.

What happens after the Relief phase?

We look at your progress together. Many people feel significantly better after those first sessions. If more work would help, I explain the next phase. The decision is entirely yours, with no pressure.

What about the investment?

We discuss it personally, along with scheduling. Send me a message on WhatsApp.

What if I need something between sessions?

No problem. I am available on WhatsApp.

Looking forward,
Dr. Flavio