“I can't stand being alone anymore. And when I do meet someone, it is never right for me. Can this really help me?”
Yes. This approach helps you move past chronic singleness by first healing and transforming yourself.
Find Your Person Program · Private hypnosis with Dr. Flavio
Private and direct. I usually reply the same day. Sessions in English, Spanish, or Portuguese · In person in South Florida or online.
Are you struggling with any of these?
- Feeling stuck in a cycle of being single, wondering why you can’t find a meaningful connection?
- Frustrated by shallow or short-lived relationships that never go deeper?
- Held back by fears and insecurities that keep you from opening up to love?
- Haunted by past relationship wounds that make it hard to trust or move forward?
- Questioning your worth, thinking something must be wrong with you because you’re still single?
- Tired of waiting for the “right person,” as if love were always just out of reach?
- Ready to break these patterns and finally attract the relationship you deserve?
If so, this program is for you.
What if there’s a different way to find love?
What if the issue isn’t you, or them, but the invisible patterns shaping who you attract and how you connect?
Imagine finally feeling seen, chosen, and cherished, not because you “performed” or “waited long enough,” but because you’re ready on the inside. Imagine waking up with the quiet confidence that love isn’t a distant dream but something you are walking toward with open eyes and an open heart.
What if finding love doesn’t start with dating tips or another app, but with healing what has been hiding underneath?
Hi, I’m Dr. Flavio.
This isn’t another “how to get a date” course or surface-level mindset coaching. This approach is different. It starts with you.
The truth is, there are no “bad luck in love” problems, only personal wounds that shape what we’re available for, what we tolerate, and how we show up.
This method uses hypnosis and deep emotional work to reach the real reasons love hasn’t arrived (yet):
- Old attachment wounds
- A repeating attraction to people who are unavailable or not aligned with you
- Subconscious beliefs like “I’m too much” or “love always hurts”
- Fears of abandonment, rejection, or losing yourself in love
When we heal these from the inside, everything changes. Your energy shifts. Your standards rise. Your natural magnetism returns. And most of all, you finally feel ready for the love that is ready for you.
This method was built over more than 44,000 hypnosis sessions, with many singles who have gone on to find real, lasting love. You’re not signing up for another dating strategy. You’re choosing an experienced guide who knows how to lead this kind of transformation.
How it works
This is not dating coaching or a dating service, and it isn’t talk therapy. It is a structured, hypnosis-based program designed to solve the problem, not talk about it endlessly.
- Relief first: an initial session and a required follow-up 24 to 72 hours later
- Then, if you choose, an intensive Resolution phase, tailored to you
- Building the new version of yourself, ready for your person and your love, from within
- A clear, predictable structure, so you know what to expect
- WhatsApp support between sessions for quick check-ins and guidance
What you gain
- Emotional reconnection with your highest self
- Healing of the inner wounds that sabotage love
- Freedom from the same painful patterns
- Trust, and the ability to share intimacy
- The “new you who awaits within”
Why it works
- It goes straight to the root of the problem
- It works at the subconscious level, where real change happens
- It avoids endless talking about the problem
- It frees blocked emotions and protective patterns
Is this for you?
This is for you if
- You always meet the “wrong person,” or you never meet anyone.
- You feel invisible to potential partners.
- You have never had, or haven’t had in a long time, a deep and committed relationship.
- You feel unlucky, even cursed, in love.
- You want to be with someone, but it just doesn’t happen.
- You don’t feel good enough for anyone, or you feel the people available to you aren’t right for you.
- You want a deep, loving, committed relationship.
- Talk therapy isn’t the right fit for you, whether you’ve tried it or not.
This is not for you if
- You want quick fixes without deeper work.
- You’re not willing to honestly look at and heal your own wounds.
- You would rather blame than heal and understand.
- You’re not ready to commit to a structured process.
All three programs follow the same three phases
Fast, focused hypnosis to calm the nervous system, ease the pain, and end the crisis. People don’t come to me unless something serious is going on, so first we stop the pain.
An intensive program to change a significant part of your life and resolve the problem in a way that lasts. We meet often and use hypnosis to reach results that matter to you.
A longer phase for those who want deep, lasting change. Lifelong patterns and problems that run in families need a longer and different process.
Everyone begins with Relief: an initial session plus a required follow-up 24 to 72 hours later (for couples, five sessions: one with the three of us and two with each partner). There is no obligation to continue after that.
Why I created these programs
I developed these programs out of necessity. After more than twenty years of helping people recover from devastating emotional events, I went through a profound personal breakdown myself.
Like many people, I sought help from highly respected professionals, locally and internationally. I met dedicated and caring people, but I found no clear, structured approach for the kind of emotional collapse I was living through. That surprised me. For years I had been helping clients through similar experiences, and I had assumed my approach was common. It wasn’t.
I began documenting the principles and techniques that had consistently helped my clients, and now me. Those notes became my book, Awesome Again. Over the past decade the work kept evolving through thousands of sessions. These programs are the result.
Every session is conducted personally by me, not delegated to an assistant or trainee. Most of the work happens in person at my South Florida offices in Doral and Plantation; we can also meet online.
In their own words
Initials only, for privacy. Individual experiences vary.
I am so happy that a dear friend recommended Dr. Flavio to me. My experience with him was one that I believe everyone should have. Dr. Flavio helped me uncover patterns and offered a new perspective that changed everything. I know that this shift is only the beginning of the life that I’ve always wanted to create for myself, and I owe a huge part of that to Dr. Flavio. If you are looking to become your highest self and are willing to put in the work, I highly recommend reaching out to Dr. Flavio to begin the journey. It is one of the best investments I have made for my personal growth.
Flavio truly listens and cares. Over time, I felt deeply supported and seen in a way I hadn’t experienced before. Our sessions helped me reflect, shift my perspective, and move forward with more clarity and confidence. I’m incredibly thankful for his generosity and for how much he gives of himself to the people he helps.
Dr. Flavio's sessions were incredibly helpful and supportive. I highly recommend him. He also speaks Portuguese and Spanish, which helped a friend of mine feel more comfortable.
Why talking alone may not be enough
I don’t just sit and listen to people’s problems. Each time we describe a problem, we strengthen the brain pathways connected to it (“neurons that fire together wire together”). That is why talking about the pain, again and again, can leave people feeling worse instead of better.
- Love follows patterns learned earlyThe study that launched adult attachment research: the way we bonded early in life shapes how we love, whom we choose, and what we expect from partners as adults.Hazan, C., & Shaver, P. (1987). Romantic love conceptualized as an attachment process. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 52(3), 511–524.
- Fear of being single leads people to settleAcross seven studies, people more afraid of being single were more willing to settle for less responsive partners and stay in less satisfying relationships.Spielmann, S. S., MacDonald, G., Maxwell, J. A., Joel, S., Peragine, D., Muise, A., & Impett, E. A. (2013). Settling for less out of fear of being single. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 105(6), 1049–1073.
- Going over it keeps it goingA major review showing that repetitive thinking about distress tends to deepen and prolong it, rather than resolve it.Nolen-Hoeksema, S., Wisco, B. E., & Lyubomirsky, S. (2008). Rethinking rumination. Perspectives on Psychological Science, 3(5), 400–424.
What I do is different
We work directly with the subconscious, where the patterns live, so the emotional charge of what happened can come down and new responses can take hold. Hypnosis is not a passive relaxation exercise here: it is the main tool of a structured process.
What is hypnosis, and why does it help with love and relationships?
Hypnosis is a state of calm and deep focus that gives you access to your subconscious mind, where lasting change happens. It is not sleep. It is that quiet, open, highly receptive state just before you drift off, without distractions and without resistance.
In that state, we can:
- Calm reactive and defensive thought patterns
- Break cycles of anxiety, disconnection, or conflict
- Retrain your mind and nervous system to allow closeness, trust, and real connection
This isn’t just mindset work. It changes how you feel… and how you relate.
- The evidence for hypnosisAn umbrella review of 49 meta-analyses (261 primary studies) over 20 years, concluding that hypnosis has real potential to improve mental and physical health.Rosendahl, J., Alldredge, C. T., & Haddenhorst, A. (2024). Meta-analytic evidence on the efficacy of hypnosis for mental and somatic health issues: a 20-year perspective. Frontiers in Psychology, 14, 1330238.
There is no diagnosis of any kind in these programs, and I do not prescribe or advise on medications.
Some questions
What if I have been alone for years?
Healing yourself is a powerful way to start. Many clients had been alone for years and found the love of their lives once they became a higher, truer version of themselves. You can too.
Why hypnosis? Is it safe?
Yes. Hypnosis is gentle, safe, and non-invasive, and you stay in control at all times. It reaches emotional layers that talk alone often can’t touch.
How quickly will I notice a change?
Most people notice meaningful shifts early, often within the first few sessions, as inner healing changes what we used to call “luck.”
What if I’ve already tried everything?
Then you are in good company. Hypnosis often helps after other approaches haven’t, because it works at the root. For years people have called me their “last hope,” and many now live very different lives.
Can I do just one session first?
No. This is a structured program designed to change relational patterns. A single session won’t create lasting change.
Do I need to be very suggestible?
No. If you can get absorbed in a movie or an audiobook, you can be hypnotized.
Is there a guarantee?
No gimmicks and no guarantees. But the process works when you show up for it.
Why is it intensive?
Emotional crises tend to respond better to concentrated work than to waiting a week between sessions. The pace is tailored to your needs and progress.
What happens after the Relief phase?
We look at your progress together. Many people feel significantly better after those first sessions. If more work would help, I explain the next phase. The decision is entirely yours, with no pressure.
What about the investment?
We discuss it personally, along with scheduling. Send me a message on WhatsApp.
What if I need something between sessions?
No problem. I am available on WhatsApp.
Looking forward,
Dr. Flavio